Does anyone have experience of compulsive snooping on an ex and then managing to stop it? If so how did you do it?
He left me, but I no longer love him / respect him. But of course I still grieve for the life I 'should' have had and the family I thought I would have for ever. I doubt I will ever meet anyone again, as I have massive trust issues and just cannot ever imagine trusting any man with my children or with my heart / happiness. I know tons of women who were dumped mid life, post-children and every single one of them remained single for ever, and I just feel that this is my destiny. I don't know one person who divorced and then happily, or indeed unhappily, remarried.
Unfortunately for me both my ex and his current partner both have their facebook pages set to 'public', so I can snoop at will. It's like a compulsion, although I know it only brings me anger / bitterness / sadness. If I never snooped again I would be a much happier person. But I just cannot break the pattern.
Bloody Facebook, it is like an 'anti-closure' device.
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody
Relationships
Snooping on ex makes me miserable - how can I stop it?
StopMeSnooping · 23/05/2012 17:12
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn at poster's request.
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.