Ok it is me again, being with partner for 14 months it is long distance, he phones up about a job near him for me , it is in the country miles from anywhere, and I would have to work all the hours God sends, he proposes to move in and be handyman, Oh and HIS cousin owns this Business, so I like a fool go traipsing 265 miles to have a day at the place and he sits at home doing nothing. So he wants me to uproot my life and this is not the first time, as he is now going to be effectively homeless, only found this out at the weekend, I feel used and manipulated,think his only motive was to get me to bail him out of a tricky situation he has got himself into, sorry for the rant had to get it out as to ashamed to share with my close family as they would give me heaps.