ex dh

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just looking for some advice my dh and i sep 2.3 years ago due to divorce ,not had any relationship untill 9wks ago ,ex dh comes to collect ds2 fri -sun ,and every time he comes he always calls me names when ds2 is here ,im getting sick of it now ,he was going to divorce me ,but now he cant due some benifits he does not get ,so looks like im going to have to divorce him how quick can you divorce some one and are thease quick divorces thats cheep legal ive had enuff now cant take any more :(

Go and talk to the CAB, geta list of solicitors and make half hour appointments with some (most offer 30 mins free)

I don't have any experience about divorce i'm afraid, but i don't understand - how is divorcing him going to stop the verbal abuse? i think you need to really concentrate on dealing with that, especially if it's done in front your DC

hes been very verbal to me as ive got a new man ,and he dont like it ,i let him in to collect ds2 but then he gets nasty so in future he can collect from the gate i dont need this anymore

You will find the wikivorce website helpful.

Name calling is verbal abuse, which is harassment. You can report it to the police, who will give him a verbal warning. If it then continues he could be arrested. You do not have to put up with it. Get someone else to do the handovers too.