Clicked into FB tonight for 1st time in ages. Was looking at a couple of other sites I'd logged into, and could see a FB chat thing flashing (I don't use it). Realised then my DS had left his FB logged in and a girl had messaged him. (For those of you that don't use FB it's a bit like MSN)
She was basically having a go at him, as he's going out with her friend, she said "You're supposed to be my best friend, I've loved you for 7 months, you not feeling the same is making me really depressed".
After seeing this I logged out, so didn't see the rest of the conversation.
I know this girl, he has a lot of "girl friends", and she's one of a group of about 20 people he hangs about with. He spoke to me about her 6 months ago saying he felt bad because she liked him, and he liked another girl in their group. He spoke to 1st girl explained he liked her as a friend, didn't want to lose her friendship but wanted to ask the other girl out. That "relationship" lasted a couple of months. He's now "seeing" another girl in the group.
I'm a bit worried about that message she sent him tonight, I'm worried about her, and I'm worried about how he feels about it - he's quite sensitive about her, and feels awful he doesn't like her. Do I pretend I don't know anything about it - after all these relationships as a youngster are about figuring out things, or do I tell him I saw it?
He's quite open about his FB, and knows a condition of him having it is that I can have access at any time, but I wouldn't deliberately snoop.