I have namechanged for this. I am 3 months pregnant with our first child and I'm really beginning to get fed up of DP's attitude. I don't know if it's hormones or if I am justified in being utterly pissed off.
We both work full time. Fair enough his job is manual and is quite tough physically where as mine is office based. However, I come home from work and have to do all the cooking, cleaning, washing. If I didn't do anything he would literally live on shop-bought sandwiches and crisps and the plates would mount up and just sit there until they start to go mouldy.
He works as many hours as me but completely different shift patterns so he is at home every single day until 1pm sometimes 2pm. I on the other hand leave the house at 8am and sometimes don't get home until 8 or 9pm by which time I am knackered but still have to cook and do the housework.
I also resent the fact that he is so fucking miserable a lot of the time. He whinges about such trivial things and stresses me out when I could do without it. He also keeps complaining that we haven't had sex in about a month now. Every time we get into bed he says 'do you know how long it's been?' I have told him how much of a turn off it is and that perhaps if he changed his attitude and tried kissing me and a bit of foreplay rather than moaning then perhaps he wouldn't have had to wait so long.
Is it me or is it him? And how are we going to cope if we are like this before the baby has even arrived? 