My husband and I are splitting up. He has been ea and is so unreasonable sometimes I just cant live with him any more. He blames me for breaking up the relationship. My parents are lively and as I'm not working and they can, they have offered to buy me a house (not in my name) so I can leave and have a nice home donor me and te children.
The area where my eldest goes to school us too expensive and unless I buy a tiny house I can't afford to be there so I looked nearby and have found a lovely house in a more rural area 10 mins drie away.
Now my husband and his parents are saying I am being selfish and unbelievably cruel to dcs to consider living there. That thwy wont be able to help me as much if j live there. I know my pil are not trying to be mean but I feel pressured into living where they live because it's right for them and what they think I should do.
My stbxh has just had a huge rant at me saying they all can't believe how selfish I am and that I am useless because I go running to my parents (who he refuses to speak to for no apparent reason) for help instead of standing on my ow two feet. What am I supposed to do?