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fxxxxxg aaaaaarrrrrrgggggggggggg!!!!!!

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prettyfly1 · 13/02/2006 15:45

i am so fecking sick of being treated like a fecking doormat. Since xmas 6 different people have made arrangements to meet or come round and just not bothered showing up, calling or even apologising when i see them in the bloody street a couple of days later. Now, in the last two days both my sister, and now my mum, who listened to me rant about my sister last night have done the same thing. fine if i am not worth even a bloody call to these people and they have little respect or care for me and my time why cant they just not agree or suggest a meet. why be so fucking rude - do people have any idea of how hurtful it is and how stupid i have started to feel that i even bother to invite people round any more.

sorry for rant. just not pleased.

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mumatuks · 13/02/2006 16:24

Well I'm in awe of you. I couldn't get up at 5 and walk to work!

PF1 I'm 50 mins away from you roughly (town to town) I'd be happy to meet up (and I would turn up!)

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prettyfly1 · 13/02/2006 16:46

hiy mascara, i am a single mum. and staying that way forever by the looks of it. i cant even realyl do the girly thing, cause i never really had many "girl friends" and they cant seem to be bothered. fair play for getting up at that time, i couldnt do it!!

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prettyfly1 · 13/02/2006 16:46

hiy mascara, i am a single mum. and staying that way forever by the looks of it. i cant even realyl do the girly thing, cause i never really had many "girl friends" and they cant seem to be bothered. fair play for getting up at that time, i couldnt do it!!

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prettyfly1 · 13/02/2006 16:46

hiy mascara, i am a single mum. and staying that way forever by the looks of it. i cant even realyl do the girly thing, cause i never really had many "girl friends" and they cant seem to be bothered. fair play for getting up at that time, i couldnt do it!!

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prettyfly1 · 13/02/2006 16:47

why does that happen - sorry?

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prettyfly1 · 13/02/2006 17:01

i found that with the playgroups as well by the way, and my antenatal class a little bit which was strange. poeple just stuck in little established groups and sort of glared. fun fun fun.

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Jackstini · 13/02/2006 17:06

Prettyfly - I honestly think you should tell them how you feel - dreadful, rude behaviour imo. Like you say - manners cost nothing and it would not kill them to text or call if they can't make it. It might be awkward at first but doesn't sound like their level of support can get much lower so you have nothing to lose... Good luck.

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prettyfly1 · 13/02/2006 17:07

so so tempted but i hate confrontation. i dont want rows but i cant tolerate any more of this. thanks for support xx

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