Revenge

[Annielove]

Need some quick words of wisdom. Feeling pure rage towards the women who slept with my husband after pretending to be my friend. He has left so has suffered by losing his children's respect and has very little contact with them. He says he is no longer seeing her but i really want to hurt her in someway..i know my anger should be directed at him but what do i do about these feelings of wanting to smash her smug face in have revenge???

Eww now, I'm no prude but I have yet to appreciate the beauty of unflattering photos of the fanjo. Why is there no sick emoticon? Bleaurgh.

Superb advise all round. Particularly like that from The Norseman.

Well he certainly deserved what he got didn't he?!

The best revenge will be the lovely life you have without scumbuckets. A good man if you want one but happiness regardless. Silly sod will realise soon enough.

Have a lovely bath!

Dear oh dear, at least he gave you the gift of your children, they see what's going on and have got your back. You can still love a person but think they did horrible things - hopefully the respect of his children will turn out to be a precious gem he will wish he never discarded and that will keep him up o'nights. Maybe it will lead to accountability and the maturity to close the chapter by admitting his wrongs and apologising to you. If not - well, he's a very silly fellow indeed.