My new guy has a 4 year old daughter.
As its a fairly new relationship, it will still be a few months yet before I meet her, he doesn't want to be introducing people into her life until he knows its serious which I completely understand.
He's a bit older than me, (not by much, im 21, hes 26) and the fact that I've never been in a relationship that involves children concerns him, as he thinks I'm taking on more than I realise. Obviously I know that its not going to be as simple as a relationship that doesn't involve children, and it will definitely be a learning experience for me. But I really want to make it work. So Im basically asking for tips and help for knowing how to go into this, and what to expect, in preparation for when it gets to the stage of me meeting her.
He's on ok-ish terms with his ex, but not great, and shes already been asking about me. One of his friends has apparently told her that I'm a lovely person and that she shouldnt worry about me being around her daughter. But obviously I can understand why she would want to know about me. I'd have to meet the ex before meeting the daughter anyway.
so what should I expect, will be expected from me? This is all new to me and a bit scary but I really like him and want to make the situation work