He gets upset if I dont want to have sex. Not in a tearful way or anything like that and he says it's fine but I can tell he takes it to heart.
I suffer from depression and anxiety and its particularly bad at the moment and I just can relax enough to get in the mood so to speak.
I've tried telling him that it's not him and it really isnt and that I'm just feeling so lost, frustrated and low at the moment that it's the last thing on my mind. He thinks because no matter what mood he is in he is always up for it, I should be too.
We do have sex regularly, dont get me wrong but DH would like it every night. If we go longer then one or two nights then DH will say things like ''are we having an early night tonight?'' and that kind of thing and if I'm already not feeling like it, this kind of talk puts me off even more.
I want him to understand that its not him and he shouldn't take it personally.