Me and bf broke up last night

[blondie82]

me and bf broke up last night, but i dont feel upset about it. kind of a relief actually. am i weird?!!

not at all, maybe you knew it was coming?

hope you still feel ok today

yeah, im fine thanks ssd.
think it was one of those situations where i love him, but im not in love with him.
Just have to think of our 6 month old now. i wont stop him from seeing her

you sound like you're on top of this!!

good luck with it all!

ssd x x x

i guess ive been thinking about this for the past week now, i just hate it when he makes silly comments towards me.
he asked me last night to be honest and tell him if i still wanted to be with him and that he would rather know than to be kept in the dark. so when i told him he went into a right huff and started saying that i really know how to hurt him and everything!!! if he cant handle the truth, then why did he ask me?

You obviously knew it wasnt right. Well done, for realising your baby is no 1 priority

i know it sounds selfish, but i know now we're not together hes gonna want to take her to his house now. i dont mind him with her, but i hate the way his mum and dad are with her. (we both live with our parents, not together)
she's all mummy at the minute, and when i take her up to their house, they straightaway take her out my arms holding her, talking to her and then she will just cry until shes back with me. if shes like that when im there, what would she be like when im not? plus it also feels like they tell me what to do. dd has a dummy, has done since birth. when we're there they take it out her mouth saying that you dont want that etc... makes me sooo

can understand this.

sounds like you and ex-bf need to have a long chat.

you have to be happy knowing she's being cared for at his house even if it's not exactly your way! remember dd is his baby too. MIL and FIL's have a habit of wanting to take over when they get the chance, but unless they are doing something dangerous like adding salt to baby food, try to take a deep breath and ride it out when baby is there.

its not so much that shes being cared for, its the fact that she just cries and cries at his house. to a point when shes even screaming. i dont like to hear it when im there, so it would be hell thinking about it when im not!

and they always mention that when they had their kids if they cried and couldnt get them to stop they used to put them in the pram and leave them at the bottom of the garden and left them there until they stopped.
bearing in mind the used to live on a farm in Wales!!!.
they keep telling me that i should do that

exactly my feeling ssd!!