Hi,
Some of you may remember my previous posts and I would like to say thankyou for your opinions and advice that you posted.
I finally got him out of our flat at the weekend (well not so much me but a mutual friend, who won't take his bullying).
I told him to go last time and then let him stay (again he cried and begged and I crumbled) but I then found out more of his lying, cheating ways and finally just realised that he was never going to change. I am feeling better than I have done for years, I didn't realise what a weight I was living under.
I can honestly say I feel so much more alive now, its like I'm seeing the world in colour for the first time. Yes, I have a mountain to climb in front of me (sorting out our belongings, child contact, a new house etc) but now that I have made a stand I feel so ready for the challenge.
So, thanks again, I probably won't be back on today so no need to reply, I just wanted to share!