lol..I realise that the title of my post sounds a little sinister..ah well...
yesterday morning I was expecting her round for a couple of coffees on her way to a meeting in brighton. she turned up late, then said she didn't have the meeting after all and would stay for lunch.
she then invited herself to stay the night and has now gone out with friends and said she'll be back here for dinner.
as she lives in manchester, i'm almost certain she will be staying again tonight, but she hasn't mentioned going home at all or asked to stay the night.
last time she visited us on her way to somewhere ,the meeting was also cancelled at last minute and she stayed at ours unplanned.
i don't want to be harsh with her so accept all this, but can't help but think she just has no consideration of what we have planned etc. she also spends most of her time when here giving me very questionable and sometimes offensive parenting advice, and general criticism.
but then again, as her and dp don't get on so well, and we have just had her first grandchild i can't help but think her coming down and staying unnanounced like this is the only way she feels she can see ds, maybe shes scared to ask to come for a weekend or something?