My partner and I are brilliant together and very rarely row/biker, when we do it's always about the same 2 things, which drives me mad!
The first one is that during a conversation, which turns into a squabble, he changes his story / lies to suit his argument. Often saying he didn't say or do something which he bloody well did. Like he realises he did something wrong, and instead of saying, "oh sorry" he has to make these convoluted stories, changing the facts along the way so that the end result is that he is not to "blame".
The other thing he does is never say sorry. I don't necessarily mean a heartfelt 'big song a dance sorry', but just a 'small whoopsie kind of sorry'. Like for eg, we were having breakfast, a friend was cooking the meat and DP was doing the toast. He only made toast for himself. When the friend cooking the meat served up and sat down he said "dp is there any toast for me?" and instead of saying "oh no sorry, did you want some?" like I would he said, "no, you didn't ask for any". I find it odd?
These rows are normally over tiny things, but I'm not very good at letting things go especially on these points as I would like him to acknowledge the way he is behaving is upsetting; so that he ultimately stops doing it. But it doesn't seem to be working!
Should I just ignore this or is there a way to resolve it? Thanks for any advice and sorry so long, wanted to avoid a drip feed!