problem in the bed room

[danni99]

Ive been with my boyfriend since February and we seem to be having a problem in the bed room and I wanted to ask is this problem common or normal?
The problem is that my boyfriend cant climax during sex no matter how hard we try he cannot climax and its getting our relationship down. We want to have children as well and need to over come this problem. I get upset and think am I doing it right and all sorts of other negative things. Any way is this normal for a man to have this sort of problem?

Hi Danni, every relationship is different and no one truly knows how someone else feels about another person, so I won't say leave him etc as you'll know deep down whether you should be with him or not.

What will tell you though is a past experience of mine. I met a very handsome and charming guy many moons ago. When we finely got to the sex bit he couldn't climax either. I didn't take it personally, I seen it as a challenge! Well failed, got so upset and did take it personally. We had a few good chats (we had only been together for about 3 - 4 at this point) and he was very much up for changing things, he to admitted to liking and indulging with pornography on a v regular basis. He also had a tight'ish foreskin too which he said didn't help matters and that he suffered with this with other partners too, BUT he could climax with masturbation.

I can admit now I was on the rebound myself and so put up with it as I thought e was the one, truthfully I thought no one else would want me so thought I had to make this work.

Skip to the end.. A week or two after our talks I caught him climaxing rather well in my friend.

Needless to say I got rid of him and friend! He was just a lying scoundrel and I think I just didn't do it for him but what I did have was money ( at the time as I had no children ).

Go figure!!

Just be careful is all I'm saying Danni before investing time and effort for a guy you have only been with for such a short time.

Ramble over.

I really hope this inadequate twat stays dumped