I hope someone can help. My daughter moved to France with her partner about 4 years ago. At the time she was pregnant with her first child. Her hormones were raging. She was living with us at the time (FOC), and quite frankly we could not take anymore of her rages, so we were quite relieved when they went. Hindsight is a wonderful thing and looking back we could not understand why he (being French) would not find them somewhere proper to live. He just went to work and left us to it. Any house that became available was never good enough for him. So we now realise that she was not in her right mind when they moved to France. Pregnancy does not treat my daughter very kindly. Firstly they moved into his parents home and even then it took him ages to find somewhere of their own. My daughter was in her late 20's at that time. They moved into an appartment and ended up having 2 children. the apartment is far too small, damp and she has problems with some of the neighbours, he works unsociable hours, comes home and plays games on computer or goes clubbing, therefore cannot get up in the morning, infact, very often not getting up until just before he has to go to work again. He is arrogant and all his promises come to nothing. I know I am rambling a bit, but she has told him she has had enough. She wants to come home. The children have French passports even thought we done our best to try to get them duel. The oldest child goes to school. He says she can go but must leave the children. She is in her 30's now and has been with the children 24/7 as she has minimal social life due to trouble learning the language and not having any money of her own. We have no money or ways of raising any, but we dearly want to help and I just don't know what to do. He says everything is his as he is the one who has worked. Can anyone tell me how we can help her. I am heart broken as I feel so helpless and cannot bare the thought of her being trapped. thank You for reading x