H just walked out

[goingmadinthecountry]

Well stropped really. It's supposed to be our 24th wedding anniversary on Monday.

Thanks though - it's nice that someone gets what I mean!

Best wishes

did he come back with his tail between his legs? hope your ok

How are you doing today?

It's hard when you have kids to consider - but it is true, they will be happier with happy 'separated' parents than 'together' unhappy parents.

Just popping in to say, I hope you and your kids are doing ok today Goingmadinthecountry.

Take each day one at a time

Hello

Was wary of posting in case he read it but I don't really think he gets as far as Mumsnet!

He came back a bit later - I'd gone to bed so didn't see him. I do know he has a few work things on his mind but have decided against challenginging for now.

I know it sounds really pathetic but I do really thank you all for the support He does need to deal with things betterxx

You clearly have enough going on in your life with 4 children, to deal with a crisis right now. Fair do's. But I think you do need to try and get in touch with how you feel about him.

We change so much when we have dcs, they often don't change at all, I believe this is bound to make us change our perception of them. I'm not even sure if I still like mine, despite being sure that I still love him.

On a practical note, I've recently come to the conclusion that after all these years we both need space away from each other and so I'm going to try and wangle it so that we upsize and get a room of our own each.