im feeling slightly guilty about this, but today is my 21st anniversary. I finished work yesterday morning and feel completely wiped out, not been out and i usually spend the first couple of days off recovering from nights.
The last time i went out, i knew i had 2 friends birthdays coming up and was more worried about not forgetting them than my own stuff....
so, i ve got him nothing. not even a card. I have booked a meal out at a swish gastro pub for tomorrow night for the 2 of us, but ive not actually got him anything.
I feel quite bad about it now, and think i probably should have put a bit of thought into this, but when it comes to my own things im a bit rubbish at being organised...i feel constantly on the go all the time and the days just flash past and suddenly i realise i should have done X Y or Z but i have enough trouble just trying to keep up with appointments for the kids or do the shopping without the extras!
I work an average of 56 hours over 6 days, but then have a few days off, so i guess i should be more organised for the days off really. I dont forget his birthdays and i got him some nice stuff at xmas....
is this fairly normal by now or should i be making more of an effort? fwiw i dont think he has made any more of an effort than i have....just realised i really ought to go get him an easter egg...