arguements and aggresion

[CharliesMummyMeg]

When you had your babies, did you argue more?
Has your oh or yourself ever been aggresvie? Did you dc see it?

Me and my oh had arguments but nothing major when my ds was born, not screaming arguments just petty ones just dont want ds remebering any of it thank god we sorted ourselfs out before he got old enough to remember!

well maybe i played it down a little? OH has been violent towards me when ds is in bed been to hospital twice but when i do tell him to leave i turn into a wreck and ask him home?

My tips are - look at your dc and find the inner strenght!

CMM I read your second post - that sounds really bad, violence that puts you in hospital is not acceptable.

Do you think the violence could happen again?

I'm getting a mixed message here Charlies - what is it you want to talk about really? Arguing or leaving? It sounds like you are in a difficult situation.

OP you have posted a lot tonight on different topics and they all hint to this. Are you OK? I am also not sure whether you maybe want to either remove your photo or make your profile private. I dont know, but i got a feeling from your photo before i read about your troubles, there is something not right there.

I hope you and DS are OK

I am sorry, hope i didnt cross a line.

Please speak to your health visitor or call women's aid.
Arguments that land you in hospital are not normal.
Can you take your ds and go to your family ? Then talk to someone about what is going on.

If he ever hurts you again you have to tell someone they can help you be safe. Don't lie about what is going on .