Just over a year ago, my husband told me he had been having an affair and was going to leave. After a huge amount of effort, we got ourselves back on track.
When I thought he was going to leave, I kicked myself for giving up a good career to be a stay-at-home mum. I absolutely love being at home, financially we're ok but I felt I had been so stupid to become reliant on someone who, it turned out, wasn't trustworthy. So now, a year on I have been offered a full-time job and I don't know what to do. If I knew my husband was going to always be around, I would definitely prefer to be at home with the kids but I guess I've learnt I can't trust in that. I so don't want to work full-time (the job is full-time or nothing) and I feel resentful to my husband that I am in this position of having to choose peace of mind (knowing that I could manage with the kids and would have more confidence in my ability to do so) over time with the kids. What shall I do?