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Am I the only person not to have had a 1 night stand?

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Theglassishalffull · 02/04/2012 22:03

Just wondering am in my 20s and have left a serious relationship ... Went out on weekend was tempted...

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Theglassishalffull · 03/04/2012 19:16

World I suppose this the 1st time I have ever thought about it, when I was 14 I was sexually assaulted this made me hit rock bottom and as you can imagine was put off any type of relationship ...
When I was 16 I made the decision that I would not let someone ruin me....
I was with my ex from 16 until recently so I duno if I could hack a ONS.
The fact I considered it has scared me TBH

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FlatCapAndAWhippet · 03/04/2012 20:21

I havent.....and I'm ancient Grin

FlatCapAndAWhippet · 03/04/2012 20:25

just read your post theglass Sad

LydiaWickham · 03/04/2012 20:25

Well, DH was supposed to be a one night stand, but then called and we started going out, so I think that doesn't really count as a one night stand, but more just sleeping together very early in our relationship...

AdornMeWithSparkle · 03/04/2012 20:26

I never have. Neither has DH.

I don't think I would have coped well with one but I think some people have a lot of fun that way.

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Theglassishalffull · 03/04/2012 20:42

Flat it was literally the worst thing that has happens to me personally... I am ok now but finding the whole prospect of sleeping with someone new very scary ...

It also happens to be the day before my birthday today, which is also the day it happened those years ago.

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bronze · 03/04/2012 20:43

Nope never
I wouldn't enjoy it

bronze · 03/04/2012 20:44

Sorry should have refreshed when I got to the bottm. Didn't mean to be crass folowing your post

bronze · 03/04/2012 20:44

*bottom.. following

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Theglassishalffull · 03/04/2012 20:45

Someone new I meen...

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AwkwardMary · 03/04/2012 20:50

I have had a few before I met DH...and they're either soul destroying or hysterial fun, so the risk is geat! It depends...they can be dangerous too...but also good for shaking off the memories.

LiarsWife · 03/04/2012 20:54

You are not missing anything .. did it once when younger (if ONS only counts if you don't know them) crap sex and awkward in the morning .. don't give yourself a hard time x

Lougle · 03/04/2012 21:07

No Smile never. In fact DH and I were 'first loves'. Married 10 years.

Smurfy1 · 03/04/2012 21:28

Nope me neither I married my first love and divorced at 26yrs and met my oh at 28yrs was single inbetween and now married to my now DH

My sister told oh i was a low mileage model rofl

MyLittleMiracle · 03/04/2012 21:57

I am in my twenties never had a one night stand, ever, was married at 17, to my now ex Husband as we are seperated.

No one night stands here! EVER. Too dodgy"
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LesAnimaux · 03/04/2012 21:59

But surely one night stands are just first dates that don't go anywhere.....

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Theglassishalffull · 03/04/2012 22:01

Hu? Don't get you animaux

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gobbledegook1 · 03/04/2012 22:04

Nope never had a one night stand either, its not my thing.

muminthecity · 03/04/2012 22:17

I've had loads a few, one fairly recently. I must be lucky because mine have all been great, I don't regret any of them.

cazboldy · 03/04/2012 22:21

no and neither has dh

we are each other's one and onlies....

I am 30, we have 5 dc, and I was 13 when we started going out and 16 when we got married Smile

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