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Divorce advice website?

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paranoidandroidwreckmyownlife · 02/04/2012 13:50

I've seen it on some threads here before, a site with advice about divorcing with children involved. Don't want them to be hurt any more than they already have been.
If any of you remember me, DH had a 'working lunch' that he lied about with his assistant manager to do handover, her coming back from holiday today, DH first day today. A friend who works in another store said company policy is handovers done in store so any worries, issues can be dealt with there and then. Not over a beer and salad/pizza at pizza express.
I just cannot trust him anymore, it hurts to much everytime i find he's lied again. I know he lies as he doesn't want to deal with me blowing up about things, esp her. But in all honesty, since I found the CC slip yesterday and rang to see what was on bill (definitely not takeaway pizzas with staff.) he's not said sorry for hurting my feelings again, or told me that he loves me, in fact I think he's tread his business transactions with customers with more warmth.
He had the decency to sleep in DS's room last night and has gone on holiday with the DC's, I've kept the youngest here, not 2 yet, and didn't want to go away and play happy families anymore. I'm so angry and so hurt at the same time, don't think it's a physical affair but the trust is all gone, and he doesn't care enough about me to keep a proffesional distance between her and himself.Sad

I just need the website details if anyone can post them for me, I want to make this as easy as possible for the DC's. Thank you.x

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paranoidandroidwreckmyownlife · 02/04/2012 14:09

Please, does anyone have any help or advice, I feel so bloody low.

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cestlavielife · 02/04/2012 14:11

wikivorce
www.wikivorce.com/divorce/

mumblechum1 · 02/04/2012 14:13

Erm, I assume there's a lot more to it than just him having a working lunch with a colleague, so if you're sure you're at the end of the road, have a look at wikivorce, or the legal section of Mumsnet.

You do need to get a solicitor though, and you can find a family law specialist on www.resolution.org.uk.

It's more important to get a solicitor on board than trawl websites as every case is different and you can't just assume that your divorce will go the same way as someone else's.

Good luck.

paranoidandroidwreckmyownlife · 02/04/2012 14:28

Thank you, resolution, that's the one I've seen before. There is more history, yes. Thanks again.

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mothermirth · 02/04/2012 15:47

How about this one:

www.expertsforparents.co.uk

HTH

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