Dp. Him again! All has been calm for a while but its the whole issue arising with his friends again. I posted about the whole stag weekend thing the other day, well that seems to have been accepted.
However, this weekend he arrived home friday evening. I had to work last night, so had a lay in yesterday morning, then DP had to go and get a new tyre, then I had to go to work. Got home this morning and crashed out. Told DP to get me up at a time that he thought was reasonable. I went to bed at 10 and he woke me at 2.45. I'd normally get up before than that.
Anyway, DS woke up from his nap about the same time, and I got myself some breakfast (cornflakes) and before I was halfway through he was trying to say goodbye to go and drive back to Bristol.
ranted and raved for ages about filling in 8 medical health questions for our bloody mortgage, which he was supposed to fill in before, and me reminding him 'delayed him'. And I mean, you would never believe anyone could cause such a fuss about filling in a form.
He finally left at 3.20. I hadn't even had the chance to have a shower before he left. he refused to give me 5 minutes to do so. I told him I knew he was planning on going out this evening. Cue lots of denials.
One phone call an hour and a half later to tell me that he'd only just got on the motorway so he was right to leave when he did. He'd call me when he got there. No other phone call. So about half an hour ago I tried to call him. No answer.
He did call back, claiming to be in his parents garden when I asked him. I told him he was lying, he denied, denied, untill I got the usual, 'So what if I am out?' Erm, well out of the 10 or so waking hours you got to spend with me you couldn't wait to get away to your friends, that is what the problem is. I now won't see him untill Fri/Sat.
I won't be able to live with this desperation to be wherever his friends are if he carries on when we move. This is the 4th time this week he has been out with them.
Rant over.