I have now officially had enough of being a total pushover because I'm too polite to say anything. In the last 2 weeks my SIL and family invited themselves and their friends to stay in our house where I was to provide food, drink, meals, washing, babysitting and night nanny services whilst putting up with some passive aggressive nonsense from my BIL. Not a bunch of flowers or a bottle of wine was proffered in thanks. We said nothing as MIL asked us to put up with it for the sake of family harmony.
My sister has got me looking after her kids sometime next week- however the number of children and the day has apparently changed but she hasn't thought to tell me.
On top of that one of my oldest friends is living in our 'granny flat' above the garage rent free whilst she's between houses. We've just moved in and the place was a bit of a shambles but I sorted it out got some cheap and used furniture so it was liveable. However she's just got a new man and basically hasn't even the time to say hello as she passes us in the driveway as she's off the shag him as soon as they get out of the car- plus she's owes me money for 2 months worth of bills and she has a very well paid job.. I think the final straw was this afternoon when I saw them sneaking out when we'd gone in to the house from the garden to go to the loo. It was pathetic all me and DS would've done is say hello.
I know I need to say something but I'm totally rubbish at being rude. It's really getting me down