OF course i know(angry)

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Ive told the police and social services i suspect he(their dad) was abusing them,told them all the incidence and advices that made me come to that conclusion.They ignored me,roll their eyes and took no action telling me theres no evidence.I told the health visitor who contacted ss.I had a phone call from them and what she said was "you do know that this is a serious allegation why did you tell the health visitor",why did you put the kids in this situation"why did you allow him to see the kids if what you are saying is true(he sees them under my supervision after they refused to help in first place)of course i know(angry).so basically is my fault.I know i was stupid and cant forgive myself for not smelling a rat,he was weird and strange and i should have known,should have followed my instints and not what pp think.I can never leave them with anyone,they sleep in my room(shock).i cant trust anyone.

Thats great news. Fingers crossed you and the children get the support you need.

Good luck xx

Bit of advice, ask for a copy of refereal note or minutes of convo, ask for future appointments or anything promised to be written down and copy given.

I had dealings with SS for a relative who was extremely vulnerable, 9 yes 9 phonecalls were NOT recorded anywhere. All they had was my name attached to relatives file, not a single word was recorded nor any concern taken seriously.

I was right btw, she was being robbed on a weekly basis and physically and mentally abused on a daily basis - I moved her off my own back and dealt with SS after. They were utterly utterly useless.

Had most uncomfortable interview ever.what my childhood lfe was and family history (shock).apparently something that happened to me in childhood was abusive n may have cause me to be over protective with the kids.They've recorded all my concerns,check the fridge, cupboard, kids room and around the house. I was shock they have all the federals from the police and one of the doctors I spoke to some months back but didn't do anything abt it.They have arrange to speak to kids.

i think this could happen to anyone,abusive childhood or not a mother should look out for her kids.I am concern because of all the incidence not due to my childhood experience.

My babies :(

s worker visit tday n yet again they cant take any action due to lack of evidence.Been advice to write a "will"and be rest assured this whole thing has been recorded and will be taken into accounts if something should happen to me.Hes agreed to see kids with my supervision but if he changes his mind then i have to go to court.I am moving on with my life and will continue to protect my kids.My advice to parents out there is, beware who you live your kids with and who you bring into their lives,there is a peado out there.:(