This is my first post.
I need some advice please!
My wife is contacting her ex-boyfriend. It is such a shock that I don?t know how to confront her over it. I don?t even know what the reason for her contacting him is, so I certainly don?t want to start with lots of accusations.
Some facts:
We have been married for 16 years.
About 5 years ago we separated after she wanted to re-evaluate her life. I didn?t want to separate. She went did a degree in that time.
About 3 years ago we got back together.
Since then she has been seriously ill and off work.
I work full time.
She has been getting much better recently.
She did not log out of her email account recently and there were emails to him on the computer. It is general chitchat, talking about old times etc.
However, I have noticed that she never leaves her handbag alone in a room anymore and her phone is always in her bag. It never used to be password protected (we have always all used the nearest phone to make calls) and it is password protected now.
We have two kids at secondary school.
I don?t think anything is going on ? I hope so anyway! What do I do now without ruining the relationship ? we have never had secrets before.
J