I've lost my mojo!!!!

[Mois]

Whilst I was pregnant I had bleeding etc which put our sex lives on hold for just about all of the pregnancy. After J was born there was no time or inclanation on my part for sex. Now 10 months later (and not much action) it is becoming a serious issue. I never seem to be 'in the mood' and my partner is now feeling totally rejected and hurt as he see's it as a big part of a relationship. We have tried talking but it doesn't seem to help. Has anyone been in the same boat and how did you solve the problem. It is becomong a real problem and may break us up if we can't find a way through it

what about wining and dining each other again? have a few glasses of wine and lead up to it slowly. i havent been in your position so i dont know but all women like to be seduced and made to feel special and i guess even if they dont admit it men do too, they like to see you've made the effort and you're prepared to put the time in. a nice massage, candles whatever floats your boat to get you started.

having a baby is hard work and tiring its easy to let your love life suffer because its not a priority anymore by the time you get to bed you just wanna sleep (i know i've got a 4mth old so i know what youi're going through on that score) so you have to make the effort im sure once you've spent more time together and intimate without having to make love then it will all fall into place.

hth if not someone with more advice will be along soon im sure x

Get drunk. Works for me every time

I think sometimes you just have to bite the bullet (so to speak) and just go for it. I don't often feel in the mood, always too busy, something else to be doing, but once you start doing it its ok.

And the more you get the more you get. Its true!