Am I wrong in not wanting friend to start relationship with someone?

[kickmewhenimdown]

This may not be the best section to post in but need straight answers Here is my original thread Am still coping on a day to day basis and getting better or not feeling so bad anyway. Anyhows, friend came to visit me today and we were chatting away and it transpires that she has been texting Rob and was asking me if she should take it further. I wanted to tell her no, you fucking shouldn't you insensitive cow, but I didnt and on reflection Im not sure I would have that right. He seemed a decent enough chap and I assume he has no knowledge of what his friend put me through. I have lots of concerns. AIBU?

Didn't read all of your original thread, but YABU if she and "Rob" aren't aware of your experience. Your awful experience has nothing to do with them. Sorry.

This is absolutely not the place to put this. People may not bother to read your back story, and even if they do, may tell you what you don't want to hear.

Move it to relationships where people may be more familiar with your circumstances.

FWIW, I can understand you wanting to cut yourself off from all people who remind you of this event but this says it all He seemed a decent enough chap and I assume he has no knowledge of what his friend put me through.
If he is a decent chap it is unfair for you to expect your friend not to see him.

Understandably you are being unreasonable.