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Tell me how to handle this please

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hesnotthatintomeishe · 21/03/2012 17:22

Been seeing someone for 3 months. I like him a lot, he seems to like me. He is a bit younger than me has no dc, I do.

However when we meet up it is always driven by me, its always me suggesting it although he seems happy and excited to do stuff with me. I don't think he has once suggested us doing anything. I have told him when I am available each week when the dc are with their dad, but still he does not suggest making dates. Things just drift until I suggest something. However he texts or calls at least four or five times a day. We have an amazing time when together.

Would you say something? I am beginning to feel that I am much more into this than he is and that is not a very good feeling. I don't know whether to come straight out and say "why don't you make dates with me?!" or just not suggest anything and see what happens. Both options make me feel not great to be honest.

So opinions please.

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Mogyzogwon · 22/03/2012 11:40

He works with you around your children, doesn't demand all your spare time and gives you space. You seem to be happy with most aspects of the relationship. I think you should go with flow, don't play silly buggers or mind games and enjoy what you have at the moment. Relax more and see how it goes.

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