I really am at the end of my tether with my husband. He won't talk about things and if I try to, he just says oh I'll leave then shall I and sulks like a child.
Things that are upsetting me:
He has essentially ripped apart out house and not finished anything in it so we live in a building site with many rooms with no carpet.
He has dogs that he got because he wanted them even though I didn't and he then expects me to pick up the slack when he can't be bothered or is working away. He never does so much as was the dogs' bedding. I keep telling him when he works away he needs to get a dog walker to walk them as I find it hard with young DCs, work, housework and everything else but he ignores me.
He has got a spending habit and buys what he wants for himself when he wants it. We just got straight recently from a lot of debt he had run up and I found out a few months ago he has run up more debt on a CC. He also had to go to court recently for something and got fined 1k which again we couldnt' afford, but the offence was something very careless and silly, yet through his carelessness we are out of pocket. I can't imagine being allowed 1k to spend on myself but effectively it was 1k spent on him. He has some very expensive excess equipment for a hobby but he won't sell any of it even though it could pay off the debt he's run up.
He won't do anything in the house and leaves mess and stuff everywhere. he won't food shop or cook or do any cleaning or laundry. Yet I get moaned at if the house is a mess although I have young DCs and work to deal with too.
What do I do? He won't listen to me like I said. I never get time to do anything for myself, not even an exercise DVD or go for a run, nothing.