A few weeks ago dp confessed that he has always had the fantasy of dressing up as a woman. His fantasy was to wear tights, underwear, dress, high heels and make up and then have sex. I would never have suspected dp of having this type of fantasy but really tried to hear him without judgement as I felt he'd really taken a risk in opening up about this to me.
I am the type of woman who really likes men to be men and dp fits this type by being well built and muscular and working in a very masculine type job. I wasn't sure how I felt but I thought about it for a few days and we spoke some more about it and any fears I had such as dp becomming obsessed or it taking over our sex life.
I forewarned dp that this was his fantasy and that while I would try to give him the space to experiment I wasn't sure would I find it a complete turn off. I agreed to help him search for shoes etc on the internet. While we were looking on the internet I noticed that dp was very excited but I still wasn't sure how I felt about it all.
The other night I decided to throw caution to the wind and I gave dp some of my underwear and suspenders to experiment with if he wanted. I went into the bathroom and when I came out he had them on but was under the covers in bed. He was very turned on and we ended up having great sex. I wasn't at all turned on by it but seeing him so turned on helped me to go along with it.
I'm not really sure what my question is but I am wondering if anyone else has any experience of this. I'm still not sure how I feel about it all but overall I think it's probably a bit harmless if I can overlook how ridiculous dp looks in female underwear. Anyway, for anyone with more experience is there anything I should be worried about with all this?