What the actual fuck did I say that for?

[hamstersarsehole]

Oh god.

Someone come get me now.

I was with my newish DP last night - couple of months but known him a few years. We had sex.

And during sex, I gasped.......oh god this is awful............

"I LOVE YOU"

Oh God. I don't even love him. I quickly mumbled ..."erm, you doing that"........but OMG OMG the shame. It's too soon to say that. Like really.

Well the sex must have been good!

pmsl. do you think he cottoned on to what you had said? Maybe you got away with it adding on the rest of the sentence.

still cringeworthy though

Yes. I. Do. Think. He. Cottoned. On. To. What. I. Said.

My mumble was insufficient reassurance that I wasn't a raving lunatic. It was said.

Oh god.

he maybe probably realised you didn't mean him you meant your orgasm ??

I have actually done that morethanonce and tbh in my experience he wont have heard or will pay no notice if he did given the .. urm.. location.

Have you done it MrsTwinks, have you? I am so pleased.

It WAS the orgasm. I was sort of lost. Then heard myself saying it. And had the "did I just say that outloud?" moment. He is generally quite thoughtful / decent so maybe............

Hahaha, I did that to my now husband when we first started going out. Afterwards I was trying to vanish into my pillow and he just thought it was hilarious. It happens. Especially when they're very good at what they're doing ;)

I think most of us have done it at one time or another - it's not the same as saying it when you aren't 'in the throws of passion'

Quick recovery, well done!

My new man did this last time we were "together" saying something similar at the end to cover it. I don't think he loves me and it didn't freak me out. Sometimes I feel like saying it to but I think it's more the strength of feeling you are having during the er, Act! than actual love.

I said it to my now DH - the SECOND time we had sex I thought I'd never see him again! I think I knew I'd fallen for him already but did not want to say it. Certainly not out loud. To him.

He didn't even react, just took it as 'in the moment'. I was stupidly embarrassed.

I blurted that out once during sex.

He never spoke to me again.

I was late teens.

I didn't love him.

Prick.

Ha! I can imagine the cringeworthyness I've done it too, with someone who was just a casual shag but was very good at it! Didn't love him in the slightest and just said the next day, "erm, sorry about that "I love you stuff" last night I just got a bit carried away".

Had a bit of a similar situation with a guy I was seeing last year but it was him that said I loved him. Chatting on the phone he said, "that's why you love me, isn't it?" followed by a bit of throat clearing. I didn't love him at all but in my embarrassment for him and to help him cover it up, I started to talking about his bad cough, which just made it that much worse.

What a prick

Hahaha, I did that during my 20 simethingth orgasm during a weekend away with my fairly new dp.

I backtracked by telling him that I actually had said that I could smell petrol!...(wtaf) .
We've been married 4yrs now

I'm getting a bit scared at the number of people who have said they are now married to the man they did this heinous thing to. Apart from you Fabwoman and your prick, of course. Lucky escape?

But yes wtaf @ smelling petrol?

It doesn't even rhyme or anything.

Dh , said I love you to me twice . Both in cringe worthy situations.

First time he said it , I wasn't even going out with him ...he was a sort of friend who would turn up with other friends..anyway one night I had this crazy party ...everyone ended up just sleeping where they fell asleep. I crashed on a chair , best friend on next chair ...dh ( then just friend) whispered in my ear as he thought I was asleep. I wasn't I was drunk and half asleep half pretending.
I thought he was a nutter.

Second time was equally embarrassing. We had just slept together for the first time ...next morning he's all lovey Dovey , and I'm thinking I've just made a mistake and wrecked a good friendship. He said "I love you " . I said " no you don't , you like what you've seen so far ."

What can I say ? He wore me down convinced me he did .

:o at the petrol and :o at all of this.
I'm sure he'll realise you loved what he was doing rather than his inner soul. Treat it as some sort of a test - if he decides after this that you're in True Love, then he's a bit thick.

@hamstersarsehole...not a feckin clue! We still say it to each other instead of I Love You to this day.

One of these days the car will explode because we think the other one is being sickly sweet.

To be fair bawbag, I only had 1 orgasm and said it, with a nearly swift recovery but not quite. After 20 (WTAF?), I could see myself talking total and utter ludicrousness, so the petrol thing is understandable.

It was a lucky escape I think as I would hate to be married to someone who was up his own arse. It is much nicer being married to someone who brings you wine and chocolate whenever you want it.

I have has it said to me very early on in relationship twice.

The first time I was a young teen and said.... 'AW :o I LOVE YOU TOO!!'

Second time, when I saw the look of horror on the guys face I had the sense to say 'don't worry about it, it happens' :o I have it in my head that that guy did it again a couple of shags later but I can't remember properly.

I once went to Paris for the weekend with someone I did think I loved. I can't even remember if we were going out at the time (it was a v odd relationship), definitely weren't sleeping together, and I was under strict instructions from all my friends not to accidentally tell him I loved him. Anyway, I obviously did accidentally tell him I loved him - because at some point during the weekend we were driving around and I really really really really needed to pee but couldn't find anywhere to stop, so by the time we finally found a service station I gasped "I LOVE YOU" as I hobble-sped away from the car

I think I got away with it

Haven't seen him in years (thank fuck).

Killed the thread :(