Not sure where to put this, so for now its going in here
I had words with a friend of mine the other night about something he posted on FB about me, and he has over reacted totally (in my eyes)
Basically I posted up a dislike of a song, as it holds really really bad memories for me and he posted on a comment I made, asking me was I drunk again, he does this often and it really annoys me, firstly because I rarely drink and secondly because he is supposed to be my best friend and if he thinks that about me, then others will assume the same
I told him by textl he was being unsupportive, just so you know lately our friendship is all about him and his woes.. ( I didnt tell him that though)
Anyways next morning I woke to a snotty text calling me a selfish nasty bitch that I was ungrateful and disloyal and I could fu*k off and not to bother contacting him again, I replied saying I was sorry he felt that way, and that I was glad he told me how he felt about me. His rant continued,at no time did I call him names, or slate him.I pointed out that for someone so selfish he only has to pick up the fone and I am there if I can be, either on the fone or in person, but he chose to ignore that message..Anyways to cut to the chase I have not contacted him since, for me the name calling was a deal breaker in our friendship...
What would ye do folks? We been friends a long time, its not the arguement I have issues with, I enjoy a decent arguement its the name calling and insults that have bothered me to be honest..
Can we move forward from this, or is it best to just say well I now know his feelings towards me...
thanks