Hi ladies, I posted on her a long while ago as pinkhair..... It was about my now XH and how he treated me and my DS, he was very abusive to me, mentally, verbally and emotionally but we have both come a long way since then and I'm now very happy in a new relationship with a women and I'm very happy, my XH is still on the scene because he see's my DS, but the question I need some help with is.....
He is saying that I have to give my son money to go out and buy him presents with when its his birthday, xmas etc, DS is 8 years old, my XH has a new partner and I said that now we are divorced it is not my responability to do this anymore, it should be his partners job, as it will be the same for me too, he has been with his new partner since he walked out on me and my DS over a year ago, he also said that it is up to me to explain to DS why mummy is not letting him buy his daddy presents, XH says its not his new partners job. Has anyone got any advice on this and how to deal with it??