H has been a knob for years. But I loved him, thought it would change to how it used to be. I've had it all - prostitutes, porn, debt, bailiffs, laziness, meanness and then affair. Apparently it is half my fault.
Tonight, yet agin, he maintains i am 50% responsible. I have never done anything similar to him ever. And never could.
He has been due to move out since January but still has not. He is the evil spectre in the house.
So why do I carry the 50%? I do not want it. I have been no angel ( found out about each and every episode and FREAKED) but surely was valid?
I know there's no answer other than he needs to go, which I hope he will soon. I just hate feeling like I share half the responsibility for his behaviour. Sigh.
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catrin · 05/03/2012 23:28
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