Hi. This issue has been bubbling away for me for a very long time but it is reaching a point now where i am concerned for the impact on my mental health... basically, i love my husband more than anything. i find him attractive, and just perfect in every way. we get on brilliantly. however, i am less and less interested in having sex with him. ive never been particularly in to sex at all, he was my first and only so i have no idea how id feel about sex with someone else but i certainly dont look at other men. so, it is now reaching the point where i endure it, and it is starting to feel pretty unpleasant. i suppose im worried because its starting to feel bad for me, and yet i love my husband so much, i would die rather than leave him, and i dont think he can be happy without that side of our relationship. any thoughts?