I feel a bit guilty for posting here as some people on this board have genuine problems like cheating partners etc but just need to have a bit of a moan and a vent. I went out for a while last night to see some friends at one of their houses, a bit of a girly night in, I was driving so not drinking. This is rare for me since 1yo DD was born. DH assured me that he would manage fine with bathtime and bedtime. When I came home I found that although DD was indeed bathed and sleeping DH had not given her her vitamins, had bathed her without replacing the inflatable tap guard after running the bath and hadn't tied up the blind cords on the safety hooks after closing the blinds, which is the thing I am most pissed off about as that could be potentially very serious. As well as these things he hadn't done something else that I had asked him to do after DD was asleep that I hadn't had time to do myself before going out. I know that all of these things sound petty but its not the first time stuff like this has happened, I have suspected for a while that he deliberately fucks things up so that he won't get asked to do them again, although he denies this.
His general attitude is really beginning to piss me off, he works whereas I am a SAHM but I am up with DD every morning including weekends, he is still snoring in bed right now. He seems to think that as he is the breadwinner that is the only contribution he is required to make and it is impossible to talk to him as he just clams up, even if we could have a good argument it might clear the air a bit, I am just generally fed up and have nobody in RL that I feel I could talk to about it, thanks for listening if you have got this far.