So confused!

[FullyImmersed]

I have been seeing a lovely guy, I actually dated him for a bit last year (may-july) but I wasn't ready for anything and broke it off.

We didn't see each other for a couple of months, but now we regularly see each other, going out for the day, going out for dinner, or he'll just come over and watch a film/get a take-away. DS loves him to pieces, is always asking to see him. He calls me every day.

I woke up this morning, and checked my Facebook, and right at the top of my news feed, is says "XXXXXX is in a relationship"

I don't understand, I've spent so much time with him, I don't see how he could have fitted someone else in?

I don't know if anything would have come out of us, and we weren't together so I can't really say anything, but I feel hurt, I thought we had become close, he could have at least given me a heads up, instead of letting me find out like that.

He was just hedging his bets with me wasn't he :(

He sounds a bit of a dick. i would be tempted to send him a faceook message along the lines of 'We spent Valentines Day together - I can't understand why you you didn't tell me you had a girlfriend' but that would be nasty, wouldn't it.

When I invited him over for Valentines I said to him "I don't know if you're seeing anyone, but I didn't know if you wanted to come over for dinner on Valentines day" (something along those lines) and he told me then that he wasn't seeing anyone.

I said what I did because I had been seeing him a lot more and I wanted to try and see what was happening between us, but didn't want to sit him down and ask him. I didn't think he was seeing anyone, I just wanted to make my intentions clear why I was inviting him over.

I haven't seen him for a week,usually even if we've both had busy weeks we'd make sure we did something on a Saturday.

I would definitely send him a message for all to see in that case.

I'm not going to stir it up, I hate confrontation.

I've learnt a lesson and that's enough, fuck him. I'll slash his tires instead He doesn't matter.

You're probably right. He's not worth it. Why are some men so dishonest?
I'm off to bed now. goodnight.

For goodness sake don't put anything like I can't understand why you you didn't tell me you had a girlfriend on Facebook, it'll make you sound dumped and desperate.

Keep your feelings private, ignore. It's raw now but you will forget about this loser.