Hi all I am actually getting so down and frustrated I don't know where esle to vent. I am 36 weeks preg with first baby after first preg mmc. So I appreciate hormonal!
Been with Dh 15 years fil died 7 and half years ago.
Mil is at home with sil who is 27. Very active socially always out doibg things in fact rarely in.
So the crust of the problem is that she whilst understandably excited about gc is constantly picking holes in why aren't we doing things like this hates the names we like and is very vocal about it has put Dh off some.
Dh worries constantly about then both and they heavily rely on him still.
Sil works at same company sees him most days lift share etc but still not enough. Dh will call in and see mil or text phone every day. It's all one way btw if he doesn't call she will phone and say haven't heard from you.
She came round last sat morning we were both still in bed I haven't been feeling well so she came in waited for Dh in kitchen to make tea sat there for 10 mins while he got dressed. I thought she could have put kettle on herself. She does this a lot but Dh won't say no not great time to call in etc.
Asked us for dinner Sunday Dh asked me last night I said couldn't as bought food trying to budget etc also trying to finish nursery and jobs. Dh said unfair can she come round here I said no as cooking for her and sil too much at moment.
Last Sun they were both out all day so Dh needed to be around to let dog out and feed cats. Sil sends msg at 1030 pm have you left lights on drawn curtains etc I thought cheeky.
I guess I am just venting but Dh won't say no to anything and if he does feels bad. They take advantage dreading what will happen when baby arrives.
Also mil says she would rather be out all time then in doing housework etc however house is filthy 2 cats elderly dog. She is retired also I hate going round as end up sneezing etc and it stinks if animals animal hair on plates etc.
Mil mentioned looking after gc when I go back to work!! Sorry for length!!!