I know it's not my business but I'm not sure how to advise my friend and having seen the helpful advice doled out on here I thought someone might give me some tips.
Friend & her DP live together. It's her first long term relationship.
Last year they had a chat about where their relationship is going; he wouldn't guarantee that he wants kids with her in the future. He says maybe in 2 years. He has a child from a previous short relationship (unplanned).
Recently his relative became ill so he's been away nearly every weekend either seeing her or his son.
My friend says when he is around he goes out more and later, snaps at her, and has become v attached to his phone. He even takes it into the shower with him. He's not demonstrative at the best of times but currently shows her little affection.
She put his behaviour down to stress; eventually asked if there was someone else, but he denied it.
Does this sound like possible / probable affair behaviour?
Wondering if I should try to persuade her to find out if he is up to something, because if he is I'd want her to find out now rather than waste another second on him.