Together for 19 years, married for 11 years.
Dh is lovely, a fab dad to our ds, loyal to me, kind, good company, lovely.
He did a one off gig on Saturday for charity, did a fab job, has been working hard practicing 2 times a week, for months.
He really really enjoyed it and they have raised a good amount for the charity.
There was a girl who would not leave him alone after his gig. I wasnt really bothered, until she really wouldnt leave him alone!
I put my coat on the back of his chair so had to go up and get it...she said "oh, is this your wife??" Dh said yeah, im just going to....and she just carried on talking his ear off.
I left then as i was driving some friends home.
He said that he could not get away from her.
It has really made me think, how easy it would be for our happy life to end, it has made me think about stuff i have never thought about before. I feel uncomfortable about it.
DH said that it was embarrasing in the end, and he did end up saying to her...i REALLY am going to have to go now...and moved away from her.
You just hear about folk dont you who had no idea that anything was going on. I would be that person.
Dunno, just having awful thoughts, making me sad and not myself. 