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sneaky sister in law

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early80sgirl · 18/02/2012 20:08

sil is early 50s and got on the surface a good life big house , money , good hubby , nice kids etc , but she seems to glory in causing trouble in my reletionship by "telling tales" about me or other people for that matter , then acting the victim and making out shes so lovely couldnt be her fault !!
she has done a few sly things in the past to me to name a few sent dh a fathers day card of our ds on the 1st fathers day we had wtf ???? weird or is that just me thinking that ? that was the 1st strange thing that pissed me off loads of silly things in betweem (last 15 yrs ) and now shes told dh something i told her ( after a few drinks ... stupid i know ) about mine and dh relationship ( not great at the min due to his infidelity ) im so angry about the whole thing why would she say something that she knew would cause trouble ????

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Mollydoggerson · 18/02/2012 20:11

over bearing attention seeker.

Is she a child trapped in an adult's body?

early80sgirl · 18/02/2012 20:15

sounds just like her .. do u know her lol !!

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izzyizin · 18/02/2012 20:17

She said it because she knew it would cause trouble.

You're best advised to keep people like her at arm's length and dole out information, if any, on a strictly 'need to know' basis.

lisaro · 18/02/2012 20:18

Bored? Unhappy? Or just a stirring bitch?

early80sgirl · 18/02/2012 20:19

I know izzyizin youre so right im so annoyed at myself for saying anything of any importance to her !!!

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early80sgirl · 18/02/2012 20:20

think its a bit of all 3 lisaro , im glad its not just me who thought this !!

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izzyizin · 18/02/2012 22:36

If you confide in her again, it'll be a case of 'on your own head be it' as you can't say that you don't know what she's like.

When you're in her company make sure you only drink water - you'll probably be so desperate for a 'real' drink that you won't be tempted to linger in her presence Grin

early80sgirl · 19/02/2012 00:28

yes i know will certainly not make the same mistake again thanks for the replies x

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