I am soooooooooooooo annoyed, the house is a tip at the minute, dh doesn't go back to work until saturday, but has not doing ANYTHING, I have a close friend coming to stay next week for a few days and obviously want things spotless, i have asked him to help (its his mess as well) and all he has done is sit on his ring piece.
I have a migraine and went to bed for a couple of hours earlier, asking him to empty the dishwasher and put some washing in the tumbler and some more washing in, when I came down he has done NOTHING, he couldn't even be bothered to get the kids teas ready cos he was playing a game on the computer.
When he is working, he does 48hours in 4 days and then has 6 days off, but on the days off he does NOTHING unless I really nag him which I don't want to do. Whilst he is working he does even less, which takes some doing, he takes his clothes off leaves them on the floor, and leaves a trail of clothes, wet towels on the bathroom floor (You get the picture) i just want a bit of help, i am thinking of asking him to take dd2 with him when he goes into town tomorrow, so that I can really crack on (she is not too good at min, full of cold and upset about school and is always wanting cuddles which i can't resist) but I know that he will say that he can't cope with her and shopping, what he really means is he can't go to the pub or to the bookies, I am so at the minute, i'm going to put some more washing in, empty and fill the dishwasher again, go have a hot bath and get into bed and read a book.