For the past 6 years I have been with my partner. He can be lovely but there are two sides to him. We have no children. i am in my early twenties.
Well I have woken up basically and realised how controlling he can be. This all really started last June when I went on a hen do. I stayed at a friends house not with my parents as planned. I had a great time but next day he was so nasty to me and accused me of basically sleeping with and staying with another man. I did not nor have not ever done this. After that incident he admitted he did not trust me. We have tried to make it work but I have had enough.
There are more incidents but basically I know I can't be with him anymore. I have tried saying straight out I don't want to be with you anymore but he won't accept it and convinces me to stay.
How can I leave him, and keep strong enough to stay away?