Think I'm making another big mistake

[room4another1]

This Friday me and my 3 DC are supposed to be moving in with my DP but I now think it's all going to fast and I'm making a big mistake but it's too late to go back.

I've already arranged for my DD1 and DD2 to start new school next Tues and moved all of DS's additional support to the new area. I've also signed my final tenancy termination forms on my property.

I don't know what to do. I feel trapped. I know I'm making a terrible mistake but can't see any way out of it.

Trust your gut. I'm sure everything can be reversed .. schools tenancy etc

Better that than to put you and your DCs through all the upheaval when you know it's not what you want.

Good luck!! x

Are you Definitley sure it's a big mistake and not cold feet? If it's the former then is there anyway to stay put?

Perhaps you could get a rental instead? Go ahead with the move, but not actually move in with your dp, move into your own place in the new area?

You can change the arrangements and not go - the estate agent may be amenable to letting you stay if you go back to them and say you've changed your mind - they're presumably looking for new tenants, and it's easier just to have you back, surely? If not, you can look for somewhere else where you are. Everything can be transferred back and the dc haven't moved schools yet.

FGS, don't go ahead with the move if you know it's wrong for you, whether through pride or embarrassment or not wanting to cause a fuss or hurt.

Do you want to end the relationship or would you like more time? Is it cold feet?

Sorry posted and disappeared. We'll went ahead and think was just having serious case of coldfeet. Kids settled really well already.

Have you settled well too?