Been with my dh for 10 years he has never lasted more than a year in a job and has never been promoted.
when working he does earn good money much more than me.
when ds was born 5 years ago lots of things came out of woodwork other women sort of thing not sure full affairs but fb stuff etc which was very stressfull. parents and friends told me to leave but i didn't want to for mainly financial reasons and had a brand new baby.
5 years on and I just found his twitter account online - chatting to a girl a bit flirty nothing major but did make me feel sick
He is so lazy with our children (also have ds 7)and always has been.
He is rude to me alot of the time but charm itself to other people.
If I leave him it means returning to the UK (we live abroad) and I have no family or friends there really as long term ex pat.
Do not trust husband would look after me financially and I really worry what I would live on as I have built up an OK business here.
I worry I could leave things another 5 years and he is still lazy with me and the children and just repeatedly losing his job or will I go back to the UK and be really unhappy there and regret not sticking it out and make the most of my life here?
It makes me feel so desperate for the kids to think of taking them away from everything they know but would it be for the long term good?
In another 5 years I will be 45 will I still be finding "other women" on the internet and putting up with a man who thinks he is still single?
Thanks for reading