Where to start? Married for 15 yrs, 2 DD in thier teens and on the face of it a blessed life, parents, friends, home and job. I also happen to have a supportive and dependable husband who is s brilliant father. I know I should be grateful but I am ashamed to say I think I married in haste on the rebound from a love affair with a married man. 3 years ago I left DH and went back after several months and becuase I was too scared to be a single mum I went back. We have no sex life - neither of us instigate sex and to be honest i can hardley look him the eye. We have been to relate 3 years ago and it helped a bit but DH is almost afriad to talk about the situation we are in- he justs says don't worry we will be fine soon. Arghhh I want to rekindle our relationship but honestly don't know where to start. Is it possible to fall in love with Dh agin?