I got back with an ex who I broke up with a couple of years ago after a short relationship. He reached out to me and we've been together 7 months. Problem is, I feel he blows a bit hot and cold. When we're together it's fine, but I seem to be the one who initiates much of the contact. Initially he made a lot of the running (It was he who ended it with me) but now it seems to be me. Lately he has started not always returning my calls and I have to call again. Is he playing a game? Is he losing interest? Or does he feel comfotable now and therefore doesn't feel the need to make much effort? It makes me feel very insecure and anxious because I start to wonder if he wants to end it again. I hate myself for feeling so angsty, but I can't help it.
As I say, when we're together it's fine and are all over each other.
It just leaves me wondering if he's for real?