I had a thread just after new year about dh and his gaming obsession. Since talking to him he admitted depression, hating his job, and feeling lonely because we moved away from his home city to my small town. He said he'd changewhich he did until...
FF to this weekend, DS has been very poorly, very high temp and sickness. By yesterday was very worried so took him to gp who diagnosed chest and ear infection as well as dehydration. Despite dh being off work, i took the day off and closed my business for the day as ds only wanted me. DH is off again today, i heard ds stirring and crying at 2.30 this morning. He was lying on sofa whilst dh was playing on his games. He told me to go back to bed as he wopuld sort ds, and i did because i was so bloody exhausted.
Shortly after that ds came in to our bed (without dh) he shuffled/fussed and had a little sleep til 6.30. Dh had slept in ds bed. I needed to leave to take dd to school at 8.40, from 8.15 onward i kept trying to get dh up and he wouldn't stir. By the 8.40 i told him i neededto go NOW. Que him getting up and stomping about. When he came downstairs he looked knackered (i assume because he was playing games till silly 'o' clock.
I (stupidly) this morning noticed we only had enough milk for kids cereal and not much for his tea through the day, and decided (rightly i think!) that it is more important for the kids to get their cereal. He was f-ing under his breath and i told him to stop, which is when he started snapping at me. He was in such a foul mood i couldn't bear living ds with him in that mood so said id take him with me to work.My business property is so cold even i struggle to bear it. I said that with a chest infection he shouldnt be out and he just said 'i was gthe one taking him', but i felt i had no choice.
Unfortunately i flipped and asked him to leave, if just for the night to go to his mums (2-ish hours away) he refused, to think about whether he wants to be a part of the family.
There is so much more that ive just cried to my mum, she thinks it would be best to wait for him to contact me and to stay away for a few days with the kids. I know he'll think im in the wrong and that im keeping the kids away from him, i just don't know how long until he will get in touch. I tried calling earlier to attempt to talk but he wont answer, i had to resort to texting him (childish) to sort things out, does he want us to save our marriage, but nothing.
im trying to get everything down but feel like im rambling. What if he doesnt get in touch? Why wont he talk to me?