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Drunk Dialling/emailing!

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ginnyjeans · 30/01/2012 13:35

Had such an amazing night on Saturday, out with friends, didn't get home until 6.30am! Unfortunately there was copious amounts of alcohol involved and I was alonE for about 10 minutes at 3am when I decided it would be a good idea to get in touch with an ex. I ended up trying to find his mobile number on my email contacts (I deleted from my phone in case I was tempted to drunk dial!!) and when I couldn't find it decided to just email him instead. I haven't been in touch with him since October, was doing so well. Had a dating rejection experience last week and am thinking in my drunken state just wanted to go back to the familiar. It is pretty funny but mortifying at the same time. I've done this about two times previously and I never get in touch when I'm sober! Poor guy. Probably thinks I'm a stalker. I don't even want to be with him. He's a bit of a tit and I could never be with him permanently but oh to have one more night with him. Shame on me! I sent four short emails by the way. Worst one reads 'Everything is ok when you are drunk. U should be flattered but u prob just cross. Ha. I don't care. I'm at the Hacienda. But to b fair, I could have sex with you anytime'. WHY OH WHY. He won't reply. It was one of those 'I don't want a relationship and if I keep coming round and seeing you, it's a relationship' things. Anyone else turn their mobile phone into a weapon of drunk dialing destruction when inebriated??

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Thingumy · 30/01/2012 13:52

Nope, not any more thank god.

You'll forget about it in a few months OP Wink

AbbyAbsinthe · 30/01/2012 14:08

The Hacienda? Have you been in a time warp?? Grin

averyembarrassingq · 30/01/2012 14:25

Hi Ginny, Sorry about your dating problem last week. I was keeping up with your thread but missed that it had stopped. Don't take it as a rejection; in the early days, you are both just trying to get to know one another and either party has the right to walk away. It could so easily have been the other way round - not that I know what happened of course!

Your drunken emailing - I have done it in the past but not for a very long time. Just forgive yourself and delete his email address so you can't do it again! Better awaits you in the future, you know that......

Anniegetyourgun · 30/01/2012 15:25

I suppose if I suggested not drinking quite so much alcohol on an evening out, you'd just stare at me in amazement and wonder which rock I crawled out from?

LiarsWife · 30/01/2012 16:46

That would also be a good idea Grin

ohdearwhatdoidonow · 30/01/2012 16:52

Ahh don't fret it's all part of the recovery process:)

ginnyjeans · 30/01/2012 18:45

ha ha. I'm a nightmare with this one particular guy, although I've only actually drunk text him on a couple of occasions. So re - not drinking - I'm kind of enjoying having a drink and letting my hair down. I'm tea total during the week and weekends I have my daughter. 2010 was a rough year for me, marriage breakup (had been with my ex husband since 1996) and I literally was 4 1/2 stone heavier than I am now, depressed (which I've never been in my life) and never went anywhere or did anything. Quite literally. So 2011, around March when my divorce came through I started to go out and actually have a life. So I guess it's like I've gone back to my twenties and when my daughter is at her dads I love to go out with my friends to dance dance dance and have a little loopy juice (wine!) and flirt outrageously! :) As far as men are concerned, it's a bit of a minefield for me! I married my first proper boyfriend and haven't really got a clue about dating. Apart from said guy who I saw for 3/4 months from April last year, just had a few casual dates. Took me a while to even want to do that as I just loved being in said guys company and didn't really want to see anyone else or compared everyone else to him. Silly really. And yes, last week pretty much sucked (well, the ignoring me part!) but oh well. Moving on!

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ginnyjeans · 30/01/2012 18:47

Hacienda tour night AbbyAbsinthe! ;)

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